Are you facing a difficult situation and don't know what to do? Whether it is a problem at work, at home, with a co-worker or with a significant other how you address a problem will determine the outcome of it. Whenever I used to have a problem I used to go see a very good friend of mine. Whether it was with a case or my personal life I went to my friend for guidance. He wasn't a Judge or an attorney he was just a normal guy that had lived several years and experienced many things. He passed away two years ago but I remember a lot of what he told me. He would always tell me when things are swirling around and going too fast, STOP! He said, look around. Stop whatever I was doing and just look at everything. When I am in the middle of a case in court and the witnesses are going haywire, the Judge is upset, and things are not looking to good I now stop and take it all in. I look at everything like I am not even there. For some reason this gives me peace and all of a sudden the answer I was so desperately looking for pops in my head. So when you are facing that person that just gets under your skin or your spouse is nagging on you just stop and look around. You will see the issue you are facing is not really that big and that if you honestly take an inventory of everything you have what it takes to overcome and prevail in any situation.
Remember if you or a loved one is charged with a crime whether it be a DUI or a felony drug charge please pick up the phone and call me. I am always accessible and will be more than happy to discuss your options. Thanks for reading and have a great week!
Ben